Book Review and Giveaway: Hopes and Fears – Everyday Theology for New Parents and Other Tired, Anxious People

Hopes and Fears Review | Christian Mom Thoughts(Today is the second of three book reviews and giveaways I’m doing this week! Check out the first one here. I’ve received these three books from publishers in exchange for my honest review. I have a copy of each to give away to one of my blog readers. Check out the review below, and then read the instructions for the giveaway that follow.)

Today I’m reviewing Hopes and Fears: Everyday Theology for New Parents and Other Tired, Anxious People by two women pastors, Bromleigh McCleneghan and Lee Hull Moses (of the United Methodist Church and the First Christian Church, respectively).

If you’re tired of “how to” books or traditional devotionals, but want to read something that will spiritually encourage you through the mundane day-to-day parenting of babies and small children, this one’s for you. The chapters are individual essays that could be read at any time, in any order – making it a light, easy read that is perfect for weary parents who only have a few minutes to pick up a book.

The 14 chapters alternate by author. Both authors are highly relatable, insightful and quite funny! I laughed out loud throughout the book. They make you feel as though you’re hanging out with one of those friends who makes you laugh, cry, and think a little more deeply about life. Their status as working moms/pastors is an encouragement especially for those who find the balance of work and parenthood challenging.

Here are a few chapter titles to give you a feel for the nature of the book:

Bedtime: On Ferber, and Freedom, and Faith

Cuddling, and Other Not-As-Precious Things about Incarnation: On Intimacy, and Being Human, and Assorted Bodily Fluids

Washing the Diapers: On Gratitude, and Justice, and Living in a Broken World

I’m the Mommy, That’s Why: On Authority, and Experts, and Looking for Truth

In almost every chapter, I found myself turning down a page corner to keep track of little nuggets of insight in the most unexpected places. I say “unexpected” because the book reads so easily that you don’t necessarily expect to stumble across something particularly enlightening. But you do. And that is the joy of this book.

I would recommend it to parents in the season of raising babies through, perhaps, preschoolers. While the insights apply to parents with kids of any age, you’ll find it much more relatable if you’re in the season the authors are writing about. There are two reservations I would mention:

  1. One of the authors is particularly liberal in her theology, and those leanings of course impact her worldview (and writing) significantly. As a more conservative Christian, I found the liberal theological underpinnings a bit distracting in her essays.
  2. I’m not sure I would have called his book “everyday theology.” Perhaps because I read a lot of in-depth theology books, I really didn’t find this “theological” at all. That could be a good or bad thing for you personally, but I wanted to mention what I felt was a disconnect between title and content.

If you want to learn more about this book, or order it for yourself, check it out here on Amazon (non-affiliate link).

 

Book Giveaway

 

I have one copy of this book to give away! To be entered into my random drawing, please do the following:

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2)    Enter a comment below and let me know of a topic you’d like to see me write about on this blog. If you did so already in the first giveaway, just add another topic you’d like to see. There are all kinds of Christian parenting issues. 🙂 If you really are scratching your head, just tell me the types of posts you most enjoy that you have found here.

To enter, do the above two things by 6 p.m. Sunday, March 17. I will do a random drawing of entrants that night. Good luck!

8 Comments

  1. Sharon Nichols Young on March 9, 2013 at 3:14 PM

    That chapter on cuddling sounds really interesting; my son’s primary diagnosis is on the autistic spectrum, and physical contact has always been an issue for him… I’m the only one allowed to hug him 🙂 I guess that makes me privileged! I can’t remember if I saw a “love languages” post on here or not – if so, that would be a great topic.



  2. Jennifer on March 9, 2013 at 7:41 PM

    I would love to hear more on your thoughts on how you explain the tough questions of the Bible (Old Testament stories) to your kids. I would like to know if you think your faith should make a difference in how you decide on what school your children should go to, and if so, why?



  3. Jeni on March 10, 2013 at 8:44 AM

    I just want to say that I enjoy your blog. It makes me go deeper. Something that I would like to see from you are some tips on some good children’s devotionals and bibles, what is appropriate at what ages and how deep we should go with them. Thank you! Jeni



  4. Jackie on March 10, 2013 at 9:39 PM

    Forgiveness and children. For example, we are trying to teach Eli about forgiving when somebody odd does something or we say “I forgive you” when she says sorry to us. We have explained that we are forgiven by God for our sins because Jesus died on the cross but I don’t think she understands the depth of forgiving someone who apologizes to her.



  5. Christian Married Mom on March 13, 2013 at 1:40 PM

    I’m new to your blog so you may have already covered this, but I could use a post about finding the joy on days when your baby isn’t quite so joyous.



  6. Lisa medeiros on March 14, 2013 at 8:48 PM

    It’s also sounds like a great book as a mom of two.. But also sounds like a great gift for my sister who is expecting!



  7. Natasha Crain on March 20, 2013 at 11:58 AM

    Thanks everyone for entering the giveaway and for the great ideas! The winner is Christian Married Mom…I will email you for your address! Thanks!